Tantra is an approach to living that looks for the Divine in all aspects of our humanity. Roxana’s explanation is one of the best and most concise I have come across. Listen, learn, and comment below!
There are a number of wrong ideas people harbor when it comes to male multiple orgasms. Here are the common myths people are familiar with:
o Most men believe they can delay their ejaculation and therefore have multiple orgasms if they think about different things at the time of sex. The fact is that it does not work in that way. Thinking about other things will only take your mind away from the pleasure you are having at the moment. That is in no way good for multiple orgasms!
o They also believe that maintaining an erection is a matter of will. The fact is that no matter how much you try; you will not be able to go on longer if you do not relax. Concentrating on maintaining the erection will only make you less happy with the sex.
o They also believe that they can maintain their erection and delay ejaculation if they just try enough. The truth is, you can only delay ejaculation and therefore get multiple orgasms only when you try physical exercises and control. Practice the control of your pc muscles with Kegel exercises.
o You can get multiple orgasms through ejaculation also- this is another myth. You can get orgasms only till you ejaculate. Unlike women, men cannot continue to have orgasms if they ejaculate. Your best chance of getting multiple orgasms is when you retain your erection for a longer time. Just follow a stop and start method repeatedly. This is where you contract your pubic muscles repeatedly. Doing this on a regular basis will help you understand when you are nearing a climax. You can stop at this point and then continue again.
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Tuesday, April 5, 2011
In Tantra, the penis is called the lingam, which in Sanskrit can be translated as “Wand of Light.” Worship of the generative organs has been practiced throughout history. Evidence of phallic worship goes back 28,000 years – give or take a few years. One way for a woman to worship her man’s lingam is to create a lingam shrine. Another way is to perform Tantric fellatio.
The Kama Sutra refers to fellatio as auparishtaka, meaning superior coition. This sacred, erotic practice is used to nurture, soothe, and relax. Its applications extend far beyond sexual arousal and orgasm. Tantric fellatio is a deep, non-verbal communication between lovers, used to balance and harmonize the moods and energy of the couple.
The rhythm of the movement of your mouth on his lingam should be sustained and repeated for several minutes and then changed in order to prolong the act. Alternate sliding the lingam in and out of your mouth, with “holding” just the glans in your mouth while encircling it, around and around with the tongue and then flicking the tongue “with definite force” at the opening at the end of his lingam.
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Your man should devise a signal to alert you when he needs you to reduce stimulation to prevent ejaculation at a given time. When such a signal is given, slide your mouth away from the base of his lingam, keeping only the glans inside. Then your lips should be stretched tightly over the front teeth and the glans pressed tightly between the lips, to “squeeze” the glans, creating the numbing sensation that helps your man to control and prevent orgasm. Then the process of fellatio can resume. In this way, Tantric fellatio can go on indefinitely without ejaculation occurring involuntarily.
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Posted by Jennifer Lawless at 6:00 AM